Age and Relationships

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               Over the weekend I got talking to a friend about relationships. we talked for a while about falling in love with the right people but for the wrong reasons or falling in love with the wrong people for both the wrong and right reasons. Imagine a lady in her 20's saying shes in love with a man in his 50's or even 60's. After the discussion with my friend I tried to put myself in that place.

              “The heart wants what the heart wants” is a cliché that couldn’t be more accurate its true we cant help with whom we fall in love but we certainly can speak to yourself if you realize you're in love for all the wrong reasons. Love doesn’t care if the partner is older or younger, smarter, richer, or if the person has a brighter tomorrow but we shouldn’t let love lead us into doing things we would looked back after 5 or 10 maybe 20 years and wish we never got into that relationship at all or regret why we allowed ourselves fall in love with such wrong people.            

               You're 24 and hes 34, 10 years age difference isn’t so much to worry about but it would be a problem if someone you intend to go into a relationship with is as confused about life as you are. If he is 10 years older than you but still not sure where to put his feet in life, I think its better then to be with a young guy that has a purpose and knows what he wants and looks up to having you in his bright future. Age is just a number they say, this words have been used so many times by a lot of people though not always in the right context. Some of us prefer someone a bit older lets say 5 to 8 years, some others want their partner to be of same age with them and some others want their partners a lot older lets say 10 to 15 years difference. I honestly do not have any problem with this as long as your partner is mature enough for you, they care for you, they are protective of you, they love you back, they plan ahead of time, have a great future ahead of them, serious with life and most importantly they should have the same purpose as you.

               Its funny how some ladies decide to date someone old enough to be their father and when they die 10 years after the wedding they begin to cry so much and ask God why, I think it should have been clear enough from the beginning that a man in his 60s or 50s have just a couple of years left to live. When you go into a relationship with someone young or old, please weigh the relationship and look at where you see the both of you in 5 or more years would you be in a happy place? Or you’ll wish you hadn’t enter an agreement to love and cherish in every situation.

This is just my opinion, feel free to leave a comment below.

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