Bimpe's Dilemma

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This is a true story I heard some time ago. There's this woman called Bimpe who got married to a guy named Femi in 2012. Bimpe is from a christian home and she grew up to be a strong believer of the word of God. Before Bimpe got married, she vowed not to engage in pre-marital sex and truly she kept to her words. Femi came as a visitor to Bimpe's church on the thanksgiving Sunday on January 2011. They soon became friends and one thing led to the other they got married in April 2012.
      On the night of their wedding, Bimpe discovered something that left her confused and sad even till date. Bimpe was married to a man with a huge reproductive organ. She was dumbfounded, "I can't take this" she thought. She had imagined her first time being magical and the best night of her life, The day had ended well, the party was fun but Bimpe thought again "could this be reality dawning on me" Eventually, they did it, Femi felt like he enjoyed himself but Bimpe didn't enjoy anything about the night. Her vagina was sore she couldn't walk, it was difficult to pee with ease. Bimpe never wanted to experience this again. "Its just a one time thing, tomorrow won't be like this" she soliloquized. It was like that the next day and also the week after. She was sad, she told Femi to take things easy with her as he enjoyed sex a lot and could do it 5 times a day if possible but he laughed at her saying she's just being lazy and would eventually get used to it. Bimpe didn't see herself getting used to this. 
       Lucky for them she got pregnant after a month of their wedding, she saw this as an opportunity so she would avoid having sex with her husband but Femi still wanted to have sex with her. Soon Bimpe started avoid having sex with Femi giving on e excuse or the other. 8 month after she had her first child and she knew it was time for her to resume to her duty to her husband. Bimpe explained what she was experiencing to her mother who continually encouraged her and told her to keep praying for him. "what should I pray about? God should cut off his penis or that he should make him impotent?" she said in a angry but quiet voice. I love my husband, he is a good man and a good father too but i need help!!! MY MARRIAGE IS LESS THAN 2 YEARS MY CHILD IS LESS THAN A YEAR, I'M A CHRISTIAN AND I DON'T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE, I CAN'T KEEP AVOIDING MY HUSBAND BECAUSE I'M SCARED OF HAVING SORE IN MY VAGINA AND I'M SCARED OF LOOSING MY LIFE TO HARSH SEX, I DON'T WANT TO STARVE MY HUSBAND OF SEX SO HE DOESN'T CHEAT ON ME.
WHAT THEN SHOULD I DO??? 

Comments

  1. Unknown12 May 2017 at 23:54

    😂. Endurance is key. She needs to let Femi understand what she's actually going through, then they come to an agreement. Lubricants may be

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